Old Friends + New Friends

The past year has been divisive in both hurtful and hopeful ways. It seems that you former friends have all drifted from indifference to intentional distance, and through it all you've been resilient. The sporting events and powder puff and cross country and soccer - sure, they are acquaintances and sometimes friendly. But they have not proven to be real friends. 

Meanwhile, you're leaning into your family and Jacob. You have picked up a summer job waitressing at the Paisley Pig making "bankkkkk", and you are about to start working at Bouws Pool in the city of Holland. 

And by God's grace, you have become very closer to Adeline - a new friend from Victory Point Church. Together you have met for coffee, purchased new bibles, and you're going on a Missions Trip to Mozambique, Africa! She has been a much-needed reprieve for you during this season, as your heart has been longing for a   t r u e  f r i e n d.

Last night before leaving our house from Memorial Day weekend you shared the recent news that you have been "canceled". When I asked for more details, you explained that you had posted a note on Instagram about people who take their senior pictures posing next to their care "are either hick, or black." And although that's probably true - in 2024 you will get blasted for being a "racist." 

You were astounded, (partially because it came from Lauren, a black girl in your school that you once ran to hug after her boyfriend broke up with her); everyone knows that Ambria DePoy is the furthest thing from a racist! 

Perhaps the real reason for so much toxicity from your former friends is because of their jealously of your life. Your world travels, your beauty, your family, and your boyfriend. They see you as "goals." and instead of being happy for you, they throw shade. 

So today, at Jacob's last baseball game, you're going to confront Lauren and explain the truth of the matter. I am proud of you, and I grieve from a distance as you experience the pain of shallow characters around you.